With 84% of the UK’s population living in urban areas, it’s no surprise many of us feel disconnected from nature. Did you spend more time outside as a child than you do today? And like me, did you watch the clock above the teacher's head in primary school longing for the bell to sound so you could get outside to play at break?! What's happened to our childhood connection with the great outdoors and why are so many of us choosing to have lunch at our desks now? I say, bring back excitement about getting outside at break time!
For lots of busy people the day follows the usual pattern: get up, leave home, go to work, come home again, go to bed. Your life's full to the brim with demands and there's not much time for anything else, especially when you add keeping a house ticking over. I get it's easy to skip stepping outside when your life's so hectic.
On top of this, the proof of a successful adult day is often linked with packing in as many hours as possible. Waking up earlier, powering through lunch, replying to emails and sitting in back-to-back meetings. This is the norm now - the constant striving to achieve more. The popular (and inaccurate) story of hustle hard from dawn to dusk because working hard equals productivity is automatic pilot for many.
Fresh air is the perfect antidote. It’s a magical tool that refreshes us. Getting outside can easily get your mind & body back online, while also helping reduce your stress and improve your mental health. And I don’t know about you, but I tend to get my big ideas and inspiration when I’m outside not doing a whole lot. The vastness of the sky seems to open our minds in a way a 2.8 metre ceiling just can’t. So if you’re in a slump or a negative loop, simply raising the roof above your head could help you to breathe a bit deeper and see things differently… I guess they don’t call it blue sky thinking for nothing!
A few minutes of sitting or walking outside works wonders. Step outside today, glance up at the sky, listen to birdsong, breathe fresh air deeply into your lungs - it’s simple, but it really works lift your day. Planning outdoor pauses in your day is highly unlikely to hold you back, in fact the opposite is true, research shows that pauses can boost your productivity and reduce your stress levels.
When you’re more connected to the natural world, you’re able to better cope with hard times, stress, anxiety and depression; but exactly the opposite happens when you only hop from home to work and back without fresh air in between. Think how easy it is to dwell on your problems when you stay at home, or how hard it can be to see beyond your stress when you spend too much time at the office. It doesn’t leave much room for fresh ideas. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with slumping down on the couch now and again after a hard day at work, but often, a good dose of natural light might be what you really need to recharge our mind & body.
Perhaps the disconnection comes from living your life under a ceiling rather than the sky, or under artificial light rather than sun, with the hum of computers and phone notifications as the soundtrack to your life? You and I both instinctively know this isn’t ideal, but it seems to be the environment most people find themselves living and working in today.
So how do we fix this? Well first off, we need to become more aware of our culture’s tendency to value busyness, how much we buy in to it, and at what expense. You might consider being busy at work means you’re successful, having a full social diary means you’re popular, and being busy with household demands, childcare responsibilities and life admin is a sign of your worth as a family member. But being busy and on the go all the time can mean you don’t have time in your life for the things that really make you happy. With our ‘busy being adults’ mindset turned on, we have unlearned our natural instincts to simply step outside each day, like we would have done as children.
Experiment with these natural habits to plant seeds of change over the next few weeks. See if you can build a better and more natural relationship between your head and heart and the world you're part of, then notice your well-being and mood soar.